英语翻译不能只复制Google翻译的但可以用Google翻译改得通顺一点,不离原意,最好能原原本本翻译过来.Formanyparents,raisingateenagerislikefightingalongwar,butyearsgobywithoutanyclearwinner.Likeabor

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英语翻译
不能只复制Google翻译的
但可以用Google翻译改得通顺一点,不离原意,最好能原原本本翻译过来.
For many parents ,raising a teenager is like fighting a long war ,but years go by without any clear winner .Like a border conflict between neighboring countries ,the parent-teen war is about boundaries:Where is the line between what I control and what you do?
Both sides want peace ,but neither feels it has any power to stop the conflict .In part ,this is because neither is willing to admit .any responsibility for starting it .From the parents’ point of view,the only cause of their fight is their adolescents’ complete unreasonableness.And of course .the teens see it in exactly the same way ,except oppositely .Both feel trapped
In this article.I’ll describe three no-win situations that commonly arise between teens and parents and then suggest some ways out of the trap.The first no-win situation is quarrels over unimportant things .Examples include the color of the teen’s hair,the cleanliness of the bedroom ,the preferred style of clothing ,the child’s failure to eat a good breakfast before school ,or his tendency to sleep until noon on the weekends .Second ,blaming.The goal of a blaming battle is to make the other admit that his bad attitude is the reason why everything goes wrong .Third ,needing to be right ,It doesn’t matter what the topic is –politics.The taws of physics ,or the proper way to break an egg –the point of these arguments is to prove that you are right and the other person is wrong .for both wish to be considered an authority—someone who actually knows something — and therefore to command respect.Unfortunately ,as long as long as parents and teens continue to assume that they know more than the other ,they’ll continue to fight these battles forever and never make any real progress

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对于许多父母来说,养育一个十几岁的青少年就像打一场漫长的战争,但岁月流逝,谁都不是赢家.就像边境冲突的两个邻国,家长和青少年也在为边界而战,边界在哪?哪里算是我能容忍你的底线?双方都希望和平,但谁也没有能力保...