认真阅读下列短文，并根据所读内容在文章后表格中的空格里填入一个恰当的单词。Manypeoplefindgoodfriendsbuttheyfailtocontinuewiththeirfriendshipbecausetheydonotknowtheirroleasafriend.

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认真阅读下列短文，并根据所读内容在文章后表格中的空格里填入一个恰当的单词。

Many people find good friends but they fail to continue with their friendship because they do not know their role as a friend. Let us see some important points that we should take care of if we wish to be a good friend for someone.

Be a secret admirer(崇拜者) of your friend: If your friend is good at something then do not praise him just in front of him. Praising a person for what he is good at does not improve his qualities. It surely will do harm to your friend. A good friend should never miss an opportunity to praise his friend in front of others when he is not around.

Pull your friend away from making mistakes: If your friend is doing something wrong it is your duty to let him know it at earliest. Keep in mind a best friend has to play a role of critic(批评家) if he wants his friend to stop doing wrong things. But keep in mind not to show your friend’s mistakes in front of other people. It will spoil （损害） your friend’s image in others’ view. And besides your friendship will be in danger. Sometimes it is important to understand your friend’s intentions(意图) behind his actions and try to analyze (分析) situation then only you should give your opinion.

Try to understand your friend: It is always important to understand what your friend is worried about or what problems he is facing. Always try to understand the situation your friend is in and try to calm him. It is obvious （明显的） that if people have some problems they will not speak up their problems to their brothers or sisters they will instead tell everything to their friends. Let your friend speak up just listen to him and be with him until your friend feels better.

Try to teach good things: If you are a true friend you should never give your hungry friend a fish instead you should teach him how to fish. This will give your friend food for lifetime. A good friend will never wish his friend to be dependent on someone.

Do not interfere(妨碍): The most important point that one should take care of is that your friend has his own life and you should not interfere in his life. You have a right to tell your friend what is good and what is bad but you do not have a right to make someone do what you wish.

Hope this will help you out solve some of your problems you are facing in friendship.

Tips for    71    Good Relationship

Key points	Know your   72   as a friend[
Be a secret admirer of your friend	Don’t think highly of your friend when he is around which surely will be   73   to him.
Point out your friends’ mistake as   74   as possible.	When finding your friend is doing something wrong you’d better let him know it but    75   not to do that in front of others.
Try to   76   your friend	When your friend has something to worry about or has problems let him speak up and listen to him. Try to keep him   77  .
Try to teach something good	Teach your friend the    78   to solve problems. Try not to let him   79  on others.
Let your friend have his own life	80  all don’t interfere in your friend’s life for he has his own life.

Answer 1

71. Continuing/Keeping  72. role  73. harmful 74. early   75. remember 76. understand   77. calm   78. way(s)          79. depend  80. Above