英语翻译3.Grow UpManypeople go kicking and screaming into adulthood.I was one of them.I wanted things my way!Still do at times.I used to think that life was all about me.And problems occurred when other people didn’t know this.Marriagegrows you

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英语翻译
3.Grow Up
Many
people go kicking and screaming into adulthood.I was one of them.I
wanted things my way!Still do at times.I used to think that life was
all about me.And problems occurred when other people didn’t know this.
Marriage
grows you up.Living with another person forces you to grow up.And
just when it seems your spouse is done growing you up,your kids 【take
over】.That’s a simple fact of marriage.
Recognize this and harness
the energy it creates.Rather than seeing your spouse as someone who
doesn’t get at you,see them as someone who may want more from you.They
may be looking for a lover,a passionate friend,a warrior,a true
supporter,or simply a partner in life’s adventure.

Answer 1

take over 的意思是“接管”、“接手”.
上下文如下：
婚姻令你成长,与另外一人一起生活迫使你成长.只当配偶令你刚成长至能适应与人一起生活,孩子们就“接管了这任务”（迫使你继续成长）.婚姻就是这么简单的一回事.
Marriage grows you up.Living with another person forces you to grow up.And just when it seems your spouse is done growing you up,your kids 【take over】.That’s a simple fact of marriage.