英语翻译You’veprobablyheardsayingslike:“It’snotwhathappensthatmattersbuthowyoureact(towhathappens)thatmatters”“It’snotaboutthesituationorthecircumstance,it’saboutyouinit”“Thingsonlyhavethemeaning

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英语翻译
You’ve probably heard sayings like:
“It’s not what happens that matters but how you react (to what happens) that matters”
“It’s not about the situation or the circumstance,it’s about you in it”
“Things only have the meaning we give them”
“People only treat you the way you let them”
You the Reactor
All of the above sayings refer to how we deal with,manage and react to what happens in our world.In extreme cases a momentary reaction can influence,if not shape,the next ten (twenty,fifty) years of our life.For good or bad.And on a completely different scale,many reactions will be unconscious,almost meaningless blips on the radar of our life.From the moment you and I get out of bed each day we are reacting (consciously or not) to our dynamic environment.Fortunately we don’t live in a static world; how boring would that be?We react to a broad range of stimuli hundreds of times every day and while the majority of our reactions are incidental and largely inconsequential (catching the falling spoon from the edge of the table,changing stations when we don’t like the music,answering a simple question),others will play a significant role in our future – although we may not be aware of it at the time.
Finding the Bad
Some of us have mastered the ‘habit’ of reacting negatively; of finding the bad,rather than finding the lesson or finding the good.For many people,the “what can I learn from this” question doesn’t feature nearly as much as the “why do these morons make my life a misery” or “why does this always happen to me” questions.

Answer 1

你可能听到的说法一样：
“这不是会发生什么变化的事项,但你如何反应（以会怎么样）的事项”
“这不是有关情况或情况下,它是你在它”
“事情的意义只有我们给他们”
“人们只把你的方式来让他们”
你的反应
所有上述说法是指我们如何处理,管理和反应会发生什么事在我们的世界.在极端的情况下暂时的反应可以影响,如果没有形成,在未来十年（第二,50岁）我们的生活.为好的或坏的.和上一个完全不同的规模,许多的反应将是无意识的,几乎没有任何意义上的雷达blips我们的生活.
的那一刻起你和我起床,每天我们的反应（自觉或不）我们的动态环境.幸好我们不是生活在一个静态的世界将是多么乏味呢?我们的反应了广泛的刺激数百次,而每天我们的大多数的反应是偶然的,基本上无关紧要（赶上秋季
法勺子边缘的表,改变站时,我们不喜欢音乐,回答简单的问题） ,其他国家也将发挥重要作用,我们的未来-虽然我们可能不知道这件事的时候.
发现错误
我们中有些人掌握了'习惯'的反应,产生不利影响;找到坏,而不是寻找教训或找到好.对于许多人来说,“我能吸取这个”问题并不功能几乎一样：“为什么这些低能使我的生活痛苦”或“为什么总是发生在我身上”的问题.